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Gentle Poems in a Troubled World Five

Winter night scene of houses against a starry night skyVigil On A Winter Night

I was ten, my little sister eight.
She was irreplaceable. I could not
Do without her.
Excited, we were looking out
The living room window
For a bus bringing our grandparents.
It was snowing, flakes as big as moths.
Slush was spreading on the pavement.
Exultant bells rang in the streets.
How glorious Christmas Eve
When you are a child or an old man
Like me with a child’s heart.

 

Her

Crimson trees of another autumn dazzle me.
Sunlight reflects like a mirror off the calm lake
Where ducks and geese swim smoothly as boats.
Could I have one hour peace of mind and heart
I would choose to spend this hour here with her
She is so central to my life.

A curative southerly wind fresh as a flower befriends
Us. Gulls in the sky hover like clouds.
The odors of frying fish make us hungry and fishermen
Wearing hooks in caps contribute “’Good day for fishing.”
We drop our perplexities in a conversation on a park
Bench as if to agree to confront them another less- lovely day.

She ties her scarf against a chilly breeze. Her green eyes,
Her voice, so soft, her kindness…Her every rare quality
Overwhelms me.

 

Judy Wazorick

We were in grammar school together.
She had a blue eye and a brown
And sat in the last seat of the last row.
She was very shy, but when I looked at her
She smiled at me.
Now I see she won’t be at the reunion,
And I am so sad because Judy Wazorick
Has passed away.

 

Sappho Poem

Sappho wrote her poems 3,000 years ago. They are considered the greatest Greek lyric poems ever written, and Sappho is heralded as the greatest Greek poet. Here is a poem of mine in tribute to Sappho.

Atthis, you ask what is more desirable,
Wealth or romantic love.
A woman in my arms is all in all,
Her eyes that contain me, the perfumed
Scent of her, her hands firm on my thighs,
Her lips on my lips wet, soft, the golden flowers
Adorning her hair, missing her when she leaves,
Longing for her, calling her name, thinking
Only of her from the rising sun that lights the world
To memories of her that I know will never forsake me.
Wealth is a false substitute for deep feelings
Between lovers, the sweet sensations of romance.

 

Little Friends

My dog and cats have died
But the squirrel who loved them
Comes every morning to sit on the fence
Waiting for their return.

 

Spring Break

Winter night scene of street lanterns agains a starry skyI took the train in spring from college
To visit my Great Uncle
And pushed him in his wheel chair.
His spirits were high, our being together.
His friend said, “Good looking boy, Charlie”
It was my last brief visit before his death.

How mournful his life was, the loneliness
For a human presence in his sick room and the hardships
Of a sad and old widower hobbled on an amputated leg.
Why didn’t I stay with him longer? Why did I hurry
When I had so much time to spare in my young, selfish life?

 

A Writer Waking Up

They are there in me when I wake
In the morning after a sleepless night–
The feelings of misery that need
Medicine to dispel them, and two cups
Of coffee to waken the heart so that
I might write as I am conditioned to–
Always, however unwell.

 

Beautiful Lady At The Fair

At the history museum today
I saw that life-size photograph of you
Turning a corner
In the rain
Carrying a parasol
At the World’s Fair
A century ago.

What do you mean to me?
What do your long lace gloves,
Flowing gown,
Plumed hat, and gentle face
Signify to me?
Why does the memory of you move me
And puzzle me so?

What were you like?
Where were you going after the fair?
Were you meeting someone for dinner?
What had you not told anyone
That you might have told me
Had we met,
Had I known you?

Why do I feel such deep
Friendship with you
And wish I too at that moment
Was turning that corner
Under those rain clouds
Talking and laughing with you
That day long ago?

 

Persistence of Memories

I didn’t think that memories of that day
When we inhabited our bodies with inexpressible
Emotions, though intangible, would persist through
All the successive years, nothing as real, everything
Else vanishing in comparison, or that our lives would
Change as had waves splashing on a beach.

 

A Day As Flat as Illinois

A day as flat as Illinois–nothing
To look forward to, nothing to
Remember or forget; a typical day–
Waiting for something to happen.

 

Ernest Hemingway and Friend

At a family get together I told my mother’s cousin
From somewhere out west that I had read in a
Hemingway biography that he and Hemingway
Were close friends as boys, that both aspired to
Be writers, both contributed features to the
School literary journal, and that Hemingway
Said that in their youth his friend was
The better writer.  His friend smiled at me
Modestly and replied,” I don’t know about
That. Ernie was very good.”

 

© 2026 David J. Rogers

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The Seven Flaws in Your Mind and Spirit That Sabotage Creativity

Landscape with orange, purple and yellow with black bare tree on the rightSuccessful artists and writers–perhaps you–make conflict-free habitual use of a dominant faculty in an art form. That is, if they are painters they wish to paint without interference–conflict free. They are confident.  Hockey goalies need confidence. People in the arts need confidence just as much. They paint or write, they chisel in stone. They author books. They produce beautiful works and that is the ultimate goal of art–to add to the store of works that have beauty. Art and beauty are synonymous.

But to many artists and writers it isn’t so simple: they are paralyzed by flaws in their mind and spirit that they should beware of, but often aren’t.

 

The Seven Flaws

Lack of immediacy: Putting off something for another time–a time which may never come at all–and not doing what we know we should do creates a pattern of lazy self-indulgence.  We pamper ourselves and lose vitality. We find easy excuses and don’t demand enough of ourselves.  No one said art would be easy. If we would spend less time thinking of what we want to do and more time to what we should do, we would be much better off. Each day writers, painters, actors, and dancers who avoid taking necessary action are frittering away their artistic existence, never getting around with a clear mind to the fulfilled and happy life they might have lived.

 

Purposelessness: Sociologists have pointed to a world population that’s alienated and adrift without the solid foundation of something meaningful to believe in.  Lack of a clear idea of what exactly you’re living for is a powerful obstacle. Creatives in the arts can find meaning in their work. They can believe in it with all their heart. They are adrift no longer. When you are unbending and pursue your craft with an iron will, obstacles lose strength.

 

Aimlessness and indecisiveness: Some creatives are decisive and aim high, but others float listlessly through life without self-direction. They might want to make the most of their creative lives, but they can’t catch hold. They aren’t able to achieve anything that matters. They don’t set their sights on anything in particular, or contribute anything. There are people on this earth who haven’t accomplished a single noteworthy thing. They squander their most valuable possession: their talents.

 

Difficulty solving problems: These people wake in the morning and there the problems are. They pull the blankets up at night and there the same problems are–unresolved. While they sleep their problems, like the dawn, impatiently await them. Then the perpetual cycle begins again–days pass, months pass, or years pass, and the problems are never solved. Just as important as problem-solving is problem-finding, identifying problems in our creative  lives that hold us back which we would be better off not hiding from, but finally confronting and solving.

 

Regretting and Worrying: Some people in the arts I’ve known seemed to dwell on every mistake they ever made. And some moan about what the future might hold. When you are mired in regret you lose energy and peace of mind lamenting and bemoaning what has already happened.

When you worry you lose energy and peace of mind anticipating what might happen in the future. Either way you’re robbing yourself of the energy and peace of mind you need to make the most of your talent. Better to direct your attention away from what has happened or what may happen and to what is happening right now on the computer screen or on the canvas before you. Whenever your attention strays to yesterday or tomorrow, nudge it back to what is happening at the present moment. When it strays again, nudge it back to what must be done during this single irreplaceable moment of time.

 

Self-pity and griping: Animals don’t whine about their situation, but many people do, and it keeps them from many successes in their art. Self-pity–a dark, destructive mood that cloaks a creative person in gloominess—is an insidious inner obstacle that I wrote about in Fighting to Win. People who pity themselves believe that life has singled them out to be especially brutal to. They are enthralled with the negative. One self-pitying griper in a work team or at a party or in a room can depress the mood of the entire group. More than one relationship has ended because one partner was weary of the other person’s griping.

When you pity yourself you’re saying that obstacles have the better of you, your prospects are exhausted, and that you have no defenses left. The griper begins by griping about the little things and then graduates and gripes about almost everything–“This is all wrong, and that’s all wrong, and everything is all wrong.” Always griping they live a miserable, uncreative life.

 

Avoidance: Avoidance is giving in to that momentary resistance to doing what you know you should do. You know you should call him now, or go to see her, but when the time comes you don’t feel like it, so you don’t call and you don’t go to see her. You’re supposed to get up at 5:00 A.M. today and get a jump on your project, but that’s so inhumanly early and it’s still dark outside. So when the shrill alarm sounds you smack the snooze button. All of our lives boil down to momentary choices.  Always rely on your best judgment in the moment. Your best judgment guides you to the best choices: trust it.

 

Landscape in blue purple and blackEvery flaw is correctible. Once we are aware that flaws in ourselves that could sabotage our creativity do exist, we can set out to rid ourselves of them, beginning with taking action–doing something productive before another moment passes, not griping, not pitying yourself, not worrying, and not putting off. Then we will feel a burst of wellness in our minds and spirits.

 

 

© 2026 David J. Rogers

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